24 November 2008

* * * I'M LOOKING FOR A WIFE - ONLY * * * - 32 (baton rouge)

I'm heterosexual!........so "Gay Guys" please stop emailing me!"

I've been through many different stages in my life. From being scared to talk to girls as a teen, to one day, making a conscious decision in high school, to stop being shy. I started flirting with girls and eventually started having girlfriends.

As time went on, I wanted to be a "player" so I started "lying" in order to juggle a variety of girlfriends. Eventually I got caught a few times. I didn't like the drama that a "player" goes through so I decided to try totally different approach. I decided to start being "straight-up" with my approach. I never was the type to call a lady out of her name, even when I was living the player's lifestyle. Telling the truth was my new way getting exactly what I wanted. I was honest, funny, and lustful.

I learned that being honest was easier than running game. Also most of the women that showed attraction to my honesty was ladies who where older than me. And I was in my mid 20s. I found myself being involved with mature women who didn't play no "mind games". Thinking back..........I never had any drama with them either. They wasn't about money and material things. They just wanted a man that they were attracted to and can get along with, without trying to manipulate them.

I grew more mature through those experiences and learned what kind of woman I needed. There was a time that I swore to my mother that I would never get married, but not that has changed, along with many other testimonies The LORD has brought me through.

When I was about 27. I remember asking The LORD to help me become abstinate. I failed many many times over the years. But through CHRIST, I have succeeded 18 months and counting. It is truly a miracle! No STDs and no children and I know I didn't do it under my own strength. A whole lot of my prayers was answered. GOD has a purpose. GOD has a specific wife prepared for me.

*A wife that is "equally yoked".
*The wife who has been changed by JESUS and is Born Again.
*The wife who lives for CHRIST and His Righteousness.
*The wife who listens to Gospel Music.
*The wife who doesn't skip Church.
*The wife who understands the importance of Sound Doctrine.
*The wife who wants to study The WORD of GOD with me.
*The wife who prays everyday with me.
*The wife who cleaves to me.
*The wife who doesn't care if I have money & materials.
*The wife who has a humble spirit.
*The wife who isn't demanding to please.
*The wife who doesn't like to argue.
*The wife who doesn't drink or smoke.
*The wife who is without children.
*The wife who is mature and cherishes honest conversation.

This writing was inspired by an experience I had yesterday. I saw this beautiful lady (about my age or younger) coming out of a building I was parked in the front of. I waved and she waved and smiled. As she was walking away I thought, "Maybe I should not let this opportunity past me by". So I said "Excuse me Mam!" and she walked over to me. I politely shook her hand and introduced myself. She had a very pretty name also. I mentioned that "I don't usually stop ladies that I am attracted to, but I am attracted to you and would like to give you my phone number, since I didn't want to be rude by asking you for yours." As she was putting my number in her cell phone. My neighbors elderly mom (who I was bringing on some errands) got in the car. The "lady" mentioned that she's an aid who sits with the women that lives in the building. And said "she was going to ask my neighbors mom about me to see what I am about." I told her "If the LORD tells you to call me, then call me, if HE tells you not to call me, then don't call me. Our interaction was very respectful. We said "goodbye" and parted ways.

The last time I can remember waiting for a someone to call me was way back in high school. Now I see how yall ladies feel. It is a stressful position to be in . I would have rather her be honest and straight-up reject me, then "smile" and take my number knowing she wasn't interested. There was a time that I would have charmed my way straight into her mind and her pants. But the HOLY SPIRIT keeps convicting me. My intension wasn't "sinful". Sin is easy. I just turned down an opportunity to sin last week.

Waiting on The LORD's "chosen wife" can be trying, but it is a learning process. For now, it seems that her and I were "un-equally yoked". Still no call. I feel like I should have just kept my mouth shut and let her pass. But maybe its a blessing? She might be everything in a wife that I don't want.

Which kind of wife are you?

32,Black male,Brown Skin,5'7,175lb,Bald Cut,Stocky build,Humble

no time to say anything clever here - 40 (br)

swm

21 November 2008

DAN *DO NOT FLAG* VERY IMPORTANT HE READS THIS! - 20 (Belmont)

Hey Dan maybe you should check your email. I think I got your girlfriend pretty dang upset right now, I told her how Jessica is over there right now and how you have been cheating on her. Man what a shame. I'm sure your ingoring her phone calls just like you are doing to mine *CHEATER* Man I hope she isn't going to break up with you. What a shame.

I have nothing but questions about this ad. Who is Dan, and why does he only read m4w ads, and not w4m?* Who posted this, and what did Dan do to them? Why is Dan ignoring his/her calls? Is Dan ignoring his/her emails, too? Is Dan's girlfriend going to break up with him? Who's Jessica? How does the poster know Dan is cheating on his girlfriend with Jessica? Why does the poster think that this ad will get Dan's attention even though he/she's already emailed, called, and likely left messages? Do they really think Dan doesn't know? So many questions for such a short ad! MAN, WHAT A SHAME.

*I checked, and this was only posted in m4w, not w4m, w4w, or m4m.

18 November 2008

Starship Captn seeking Lady 1st Officer - 44 (NE OHIO)

Now I'm seeking 2 explore the galaxy with someone special.

I am a SBM seeking a non-smoking slim/med build lady (between 30 and 47) for a friendship that has the posibility of progressing into a LTR. I enjoy astronomy,football(Love the Browns even though they are 3-6),sci-fi,museums,amusement pks,reading military thrillers,cooking,chess,(I'm not good at it..Wanna play me??)

On our dream date, my match and I would catch a plane bound for Italy and enjoy some authentic food. Then she and I wake up from the "dream" and go to Olive Garden and maybe the Art or History museum here in town

The quirk that I appreciate in others is "quirkyness".

Something I can't live without is TIVO. It comes in handy to pause the Browns games and YOU and I need time to snuggle on the couch.

My feeling on love-at-first-sight is if it does not work the 1st time I'll walk past you a second time

I do have a photo for trade and hopefully you do also..Now its your turn...Tell me about you.....Happy Holidays

semifamous:) movie actor at luxury midtown hotel seeking DISCREET -m4w - 39 (Manhattan)

I am not George Clooney, Matt Damon famous...but I am pretty well known...chances are you have seen me in a movie or on a talk show. I get stopped on the street pretty regularly. It has been a fantasy of mine to meet a hot stranger this way and have a hot tryst with her. I mention my fame for one reason, I want this kept very discreet and you must be someone willing to keep it 100% discreet... I do NOT want to end up in the tabloids for it. (I have been in the tabloids before...but for nothing like this :) ) Therefore, you must be very discreet...great if you are married. I am staying in a very nice suite in a luxury hotel in midtown Manhattan...you can come here or if you are a reasonable cab ride away I can come to you. I am NOT going to say who I am, on this ad...but I will tell you when we talk, and you will be able to verify it. As for the basics, I tend to be on the dominant side in the bedroom. I love to tease a woman, spank her, take control. I am handsome, white, brown hair, blue eyes, medium height, medium build.

14 November 2008

* A (non) Romantic Tale* - 42 (Lansing)

As the sun rose on the horizon Mark realized that his eyes had burned into his skull once again from staring at the damned computer screen all night again. When was he going to realize that most of the Ladies on the Internet only wanted him to join a great web site or watch them diddle themselves on a cam. He was ready to throw in the towel!

It was not that he was shy...Oh quite the opposite he was very outgoing and his friends all considered him the "Joker" of the group. He had been single for some time and due to the fact he had a 3-1/2 year old daughter to care for the club/bar scene was not exactly where he wished to look. Not that he was a prude (Lord no!) he just wanted a chance at something lasting,something Great.

He took in to account that the woman he met would have to love laughter and talking for hours on end. He also realized if she liked music it was a big plus because music made his world go round. If road trips roller coasters and concerts were also something she enjoyed it could be a match made in heaven.

did such a woman exist though..."she had to" he thought. Maybe he could find her on Craigslist! (After all he bought a great guitar from there once)Here it was his last go at the whole internet thing he was optimistic as always as he thought about what to write. should he tell them he is drama free? Not afraid to commit? Huuummm maybe he should.

As the morning continued he finished his posting and thrust it on to the Internet where it was found by...YOU! Do you want to give this a shot? Let me know!

looking for the right girl to share with wife - 26 (jackson,mi)

I am 26 years old and looking for a girlfriend to share with my wife. MY wifes 22 years old and we have two girls.I'm sterile and we woluld like a women to share our interset in. Most love childern and puppies.Sorry no pic doing this at work.IF intersted please feel free to leave me a message.

06 November 2008

ESTABLISHED ROCK MUSICIAN FROM L.A. SEEKS NEW LOVE!! - 42 (yuma & sourunding areas)

I AM AN ESTABLISHED ROCK MUSICIAN FROM LOS ANGELES RELOCATING TO YUMA TO FINISH MY NEW ALBUM ON NOV.7TH.. I AM LOOKING FOR A PRETTY LADY TO SHOW ME AROUND & ROMANCE ME. I AM A GENTLEMAN & VERY SINCERE. PLEASE CONTACT ME IF YOU'D LIKE TO HOOK UP. I WILL GO INTO FURTHER DETAILS RE:MY CARREER & MY WORLD ONCE WE HAVE MET.

PLEASE COMPLETE ME!

CHEERS.

UNDEAD MAGE LOOKING FOR HOT UNDEAD MAGE GIRL.... - 30 (CHICO)

HEY JUST SEENING WHATS GOING ON OUT HERE. ANY LADIES OUT THERE THAT KNOWS WHAT MY TITLE MEANS, IF YOU DO HIT ME BACK. I AM NOT SOME DORK GAMER I WORK AND HAVE A NORMAL LIFE JUST LIKE YOU.

02 November 2008

Bus driver #11 for Otsego - m4w

Just wanted to say that I enjoy seeing you drive that big bus 11 thru Otsego. You are very attractive, maybe we can email sometime.....

just me!!! - 33

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